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“Being single & true to myself is so much more worthwhile than being with someone who wants me to be a play thing, that they can distort”

Is fucking rad.
Until you’re bored, and/or horny

Then it’s not so rad

You’re not single because your standards are too high. Good for you for having standards. It’s not because you didn’t like that really, really good guy who wanted to take you on a date and you just weren’t feeling it. And it’s not because you like to wear pajama pants as soon as you get home and wash all the makeup off your face. You’re not single because you didn’t learn enough from the past or would rather chill on a Friday night with your blanket and a cold beer than shower, get ready, and go out. You’re not single because something is wrong with you.

You are single because you are single. It’s really as simple as that. You haven’t made the connection with another heart yet. You can get dolled up, dress cute, cut your hair, dye your hair, tweeze your eyebrows, put on lipstick and you may still. be. single. You can go out to a bar hoping to meet the love of your life and not find a damn one in the place attractive. And it’s going to remain that way until it’s time for you to find one. Stop hoping for it. Start living the life that you do have instead of wishing for things that you don’t have. There will come a time you’ll meet a boy and you’ll have to give up some of this single freedom you currently have. Start being more thankful. Start doing that now. 

Accepting the fact that I can have fun and not be miserable in my room alone. There is so much happening this summer with some friends that I will be taking advantage of. Also You can have fun “while broke” It grounds you and prevents you from spending stupid money you don’t have. Self control man, it’s gonna be needed this summer. But thank goodness most of my friends here go or do things that don’t require money (unless were eating out)

[ July : amazing so far]